Question 1

Who do you typically work with?

Accepted Answer

Most of my clients are individuals or couples in stepfamilies, or those preparing to blend. I work with families in all stages and configurations—including those with adult or minor children, those blending after divorce or death, and those navigating singlehood. Many of my resources are Christian or LDS-based, and I primarily serve members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, though I welcome those from other backgrounds.

Question 2

Do you work with clients who aren’t members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, or who are not active in the faith?

Accepted Answer

Yes. My faith as a disciple of Jesus Christ and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is central to who I am and how I coach. However, I welcome clients at any stage of their faith journey, provided we can mutually agree on a respectful, trusting coaching relationship. I never push my beliefs, but I also do not hide them. I do ask that clients refrain from disparaging any religion or person based on spiritual beliefs.

Question 3

Who will you not work with?

Accepted Answer

Coaching is most effective for clients who are ready to take personal accountability for their growth and happiness. It is not appropriate for those seeking treatment for abuse, addiction, serious trauma, or other mental health disorders. In such cases, a licensed therapist is more suitable, though I may collaborate in a supportive role alongside therapy. The discovery call is an opportunity for us to determine if coaching is the right fit.

Question 4

How do I know if therapy or coaching is a better fit for me?

Accepted Answer

Sometimes the distinction between appropriateness of therapy or coaching is clear, and sometimes it isn’t. In our discovery session, we’ll talk through your goals and challenges to see whether coaching is the right fit. In some cases, this becomes clearer after coaching begins. Just as you may discontinue coaching if it isn’t effective, I have an ethical responsibility to refer you to a therapist if I determine your needs require clinical support.

Question 5

Is coaching better to do with my spouse or alone?

Accepted Answer

Coaching related to marriage or stepfamily life is usually most effective when both partners participate. I encourage couples to attend together, though sometimes I meet with one partner individually (with clear agreements in place to protect the relationship). In relationship coaching, the relationship is the client—my role is to strengthen the partnership, not take sides.
I also work with individuals focusing on personal growth, unpartnered clients navigating singlehood, or former partners working on healthier co-parenting. In the case of the latter, each partner will have a separate coaching agreement, with clearly defined guidelines for communication between parties.

Question 6

What if my spouse is unwilling to do coaching with me?

Accepted Answer

This is quite common in stepfamilies, especially in the early years when emotions may be heightened by shame, fear of loss, or feelings of rejection. While it is most effective to work with both partners, meaningful progress can still occur when one spouse engages in coaching. Even one person’s growth can positively influence the couple's relationship and the entire family system. Often, when a hesitant partner notices the benefits—such as greater peace, healthier communication, or more emotional safety—they become more open to participating. Creating a climate of trust and emotional safety is often the key that helps a reluctant spouse take that step.

Question 7

Do you offer group coaching?

Accepted Answer

Currently, my husband and I lead a local stepfamily support group. I also plan to train others to lead similar groups in their communities using my resources. Depending on demand, I may offer virtual group coaching in the future. If you’re interested in participating or leading, please contact me with your location and preferences.

Question 8

Do you offer family coaching?

Accepted Answer

Yes! While family coaching with minor children is generally most effective in person, I do offer virtual coaching with teens and adult children. The specific structure of family coaching—including who will participate and how sessions will be conducted—will be discussed beforehand and clearly outlined in the coaching agreement.It’s important to remember that the family functions as a system. Challenges rarely stem from just one individual; rather, they emerge from the interconnected dynamics of the whole family. For this reason, family coaching is not about “fixing” a child (or any one member), but about fostering healthier patterns of interaction, improving communication, and strengthening relationships across the family unit. Parents who model openness and engage in their own growth often create the safety and example that encourages the healing and personal development of their children.

Question 9

Are coaching sessions in-person or virtual?

Accepted Answer

I offer both in-person sessions (in Logan, Utah) and virtual sessions via Zoom, available anywhere in the U.S. or Canada.

Question 10

How long are coaching sessions?

Accepted Answer

Standard coaching sessions are 60 minutes. I also offer a “Refuge and Repair” package for current or past clients facing urgent challenges, which includes a 90-minute session followed by a 30-minute check-in.

Question 11

How long will you typically work with clients?

Accepted Answer

As coaching involves both self-reflection and action-based progress toward goal attainment, I typically work with clients for 3-6 months on a weekly or bi-monthly basis. After that, clients may choose to continue with monthly or quarterly sessions to maintain progress. The duration is flexible—you may book a package, continue long-term, or schedule individual sessions as needed.

Question 12

Do I have to pay in advance for coaching sessions?

Accepted Answer

Yes. I require payment in advance. However, depending on the package selected and the client’s preferences, payments can be made for the entire package, monthly, or per session.

Question 13

If I purchase a 3-month package and don’t need all the sessions, will I be refunded the cost of un-used sessions?

Accepted Answer

Yes. You may cancel anytime with one week’s notice, and I will refund unused sessions within 14 days.

Question 14

Do you offer reduced rates for clients based on financial need?

Accepted Answer

Yes. If finances are a concern, please mention this in our discovery call. We can explore reduced rates, flexible payment plans, or sponsorship options (e.g., through a Bishop).

Question 15

What is the coaching agreement?

Accepted Answer

This contract outlines the coaching package, schedule, fees, payment terms, cancellation and refund policies, confidentiality, and client/coach responsibilities. It also explains my coaching philosophy, credentials, and limitations. We review this agreement in the discovery call, and it must be signed before the first coaching session. A copy of my general coaching agreement is available here.

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Meet Coach Kier

Credentials

My Approach

Coaching Philosophy

Choose Your Path to a Stronger, More Connected Family

New Beginnings

In The Trenches

Refuge & Repair

Momentum

Stepping Stones to Greater Joy and Connection

The Difference Between Family Life Education, Therapy, and Coaching

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